5 Signs Your Relationship Could Already Be Over
Breakups are painful and surely, you thought he was the one. Sometimes understanding when to end things can be really difficult. Here are our tips to find out:
No relationship is butterflies and sunny skies every day.
Anyone, and first, your grandma will tell you that all relationships take work and patience.
While it’s true and as we go through different phases, some relationships can definitely be saved, there are some when it already is showing you clear signs it’s not going to work out in the long haul.
Most of the times, we are way too blind to see ourselves the underlying difficulties in our relationships.
It’s hard to see things as neutrally as others who are outsiders to our relationship can.
Again, mostly, because deep in our hearts, we don’t want to believe it may be coming to the end. All the good associations in our memory are suddenly stronger, a deep longing and nostalgia fills our heart.
That two-word question. What if?
What if we overcome this?
We still love each other.
The word “still” tells a lot. It means things that are hard to swallow has happened and you’re trying to cover those, as a natural reaction of anyone who’s attached to their relationship.
But once the painful breakup stage is over and they’ve moved on, a lot of people say they wish they had gotten out of the relationship much before.
That’s why it may be worth understanding if there are any signs your relationship is going down the hill.
1. You fight a lot
This one is a no brainer. Surely, the occasional fights can show that you care about each other. But fighting over things that don’t matter, overcomplicating or fussing over unimportant details can hurt you and your significant other deeply. You know, when negative memories start outweighing the positive ones that your relationship can soon be over.
2. You feel angry, misunderstood or hurt frequently
You feel a sea of negative emotions dwell over you on a frequent, if not, daily basis. Sometimes you can’t place your finger why but you constantly feel tired, exhausted, bored and angry. You are easily irritable and tense. Love should make you feel lighter than these feelings.
3. Your gut is telling you so
You can’t put your finger on it but you are definitely feeling something is up between you two. Our intuition is capable of understanding what’s going on , through subtle signs like body language and voice tone, far before our.
4. You’re less and less thinking of a future together
You used to dream of even small details of your future together and it would give you so much joy and butterflies in the stomach. Now you find yourself daydreaming about what would it be like to be back on your own.
5. You’re no longer having sex
Everyone can go through periods of stress and feel a decrease in sex drive. So, it’s not exactly a sign just on its own. But if it’s coupled up with other previously factors above, it can be a sign you no longer enjoy each other’s intimacy or things between you grew so far that you feel inadequate.
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